Monday, 17 November 2025

The Mishras of the Shiva temple

 No one knew Mishrain's name .

Neither us , her confidantes . Nor my grandmother , who knew everyone's names in the village . I doubt if her demented husband , who laid beneath the peepul , talking to the birds , with his loose pyjama strings ,and drool trickling down his chin knew , in his heyday , that is .

I have serious doubts if that name ,  existed , ever . 

For she was Mishrain , the wife of Mishra , for all and sundry . 

Her identity , forever linked to a man , now a shell of a being , barking at the dogs , and howling in sync with them , at nightfall . 

He was tied to the tree trunk , from his wrists . His several , some successful ,attempts , at running away berserk , having been thwarted by friendly townspeople . He was rescued , on five different occasions , in various degrees of dishevelment and bewilderment . Always , he would be brought , or rather , dragged back , raggedy and filthy , looking totally confused  , shouting garbled curses . 

Mishrain did not have the resources to get him treated at a fancy hospital . 

She only knew that her husband was alive , and that he was her moon , and her stars , her morning , her night , her Shiva , her Krishna , the reason behind her fasts , the sindur in her scalp , the bindi on her forehead , and her general existence . 

Everytime he returned , Mishraji was greeted by a mohalla of wailing women , who silenced up immediately , broke off , patted Mishrain on the back and departed hastily .

 I remember many a gathering dark of  sudden rural nightfall , clinging fearfully to my grandmother's saree , as this man was brought in , howling and shrieking . In my kids' eyes , he was nothing short of a monster , who made Mishrain's life hell by being the thoughtless wretch he had become . 

Only later when education had opened our eyes somewhat , I began appreciating the difference medical help made to psychiatric patient's life . 

A few young men kept  him back , from the brink of mortal peril . 

One day  he was rescued , after he made himself comfortable on the bitterly cold of parallel railway tracks ; on another occasion , he was discovered begging for food in some unknown part of the city . Twice he was rescued from the police lock up . 

In short , he was a menace , when free . 

So , the youngsters kept an eye on him , and helped Mishrain , tie him up to the peepul tree during the day .

At nightfall , Mishrain untied him , while he stared at her , stranger fashion , with bloodshot eyes , muttering swear words .

Then she took him into their tiny two room house next to the tree , and locked the door behind her . 

Once away from the prying , and largely indifferent eyes of the world , she bathed him with well water drawn by her own hands , scrubbed him clean , applied liniments on his chafed wrists , combed his hair, clothed him  and fed him . 

How she achieved this , in a violent , madman , is a testimony to Mishrain's devotion to him and her unwavering faith in the Lord . 

Only then would Mishrain , who survived on few cups of tea throughout the day , would permit herself to eat . Only when her "Shiva " had been fed . In some grotesque twist of rituals , she put him , a demented , crazed person , before her own  needs . As luck would have it , Mishraji's first name was Mahadev , which is a synonym for Lord Shiva . True to his nature , as it were , Shiva , in this case , was both the maker , and destroyer of Mishrain's life , peace and well being . 

 His shrieks and abuses , plus his desire and ability to wreck Mishrain's immaculately kept household would necessitate the aforementioned tethering of Mishraji . 

Another important reason was the proximity of the village temple , the erstwhile workplace of Mishraji . The devotees came in a steady stream , and were scared of and by Mishraji . As the offerings were shared by the new Pundit , a successor of Mishraji , the temple was also a source of Mishrain's meagre income. Enough to keep the soul and body together .Hence it  was important that Mishraji doesn't interrupt the proceedings . 


The festival days were the worst . 

When the celebrations , extended into the nights , and Mishrain , would flutter helplessly , between the Shiva statue in the temple , and her Shiva tethered to the tree outside , nearly naked , filthy and hungry . 

One cold February night , when the cattle were still being covered in gunny sacks , and Lord Shiva was to be married at the stroke of midnight , Mishrain , sat huddled in the corner of her room , praying for Shiva to help her , getting steadily hypoglycemic , almost to the point of passing out . 

Around 1130 pm , a huge uproar from the outside woke up Mishrain , and sighing , she prayed to the Lord to save her and Himself . 

Mishrain peeked out into the now deserted road , to see the Peepul tree fallen . It was an old and dried up  tree , but for an emaciated madman to have pulled it down like that , it must have required superhuman energy . 

Next , there was a huge commotion from the temple premises . Peaceful lilting bhajans were replaced by shouts and screams. 

Mishrain rushed to the temple . Suddenly , everything seemed to be happening in slow motion . 

All else was blurred , just a naked madman , who had flung himself at the massive granite Shivling , his skull cracked , and a stream of blood gushing out onto the marigold and bel leaf strewn path . His arms held the Shivling in a bear hug . 

Mishrain let out a sigh like high pitched sound and crumpled at the gates .


Both of them passed away that fateful day . 

Mishraji due to severe head injury and Mishrain , due to prolonged hypoglycemia and shock . 

Both their photographs were procured from distant relatives and framed and hung inside the temple . An impromptu canonisation of sorts elevated the long suffering couple to the status of Gods. They were worshipped with garlands and tikkas of chandan applied on an ancient , sepia tinted likeness of their younger  selves . Both are smiling in the black and white photo. 

"Possibly taken at their wedding " , my grandmother would declare sagely .

Few years passed , and their home was put up on sale by the new Pundit . That was when a plastic folder of  old documents were dug up in the beaten earth floor . They were possibly , intentionally buried by Mishrain , to keep them from getting misplaced in a crazy household .

The most interesting find was Mishrain's first name . She was called "Uma". 




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